I’m told the money is really good, and while I have been asked once or twice, I’ve never been unlucky enough to actually go through with the task of cramming a whole day’s worth of wonderful, beautiful memories in photographic form in to a little book for a happy couple. While weddings are a special, magical time for the couple in question, and even some of the guests when there’s free food concerned, I get the feeling that wedding photography is a stressful occupation and there’s a lot more to it than meets the eye. It’s not quite as easy as turn up, take some photos, print them off, then swim around in your cash room like you’re on Duck Tales.
I have assisted a friend photographing a wedding. I feel that I employed myself as a guest to take the candid shots, the kind that fill empty spaces in the wedding album. All day, going around in my head was the idea that my memory card or camera would fail, like neither had done before and the wedding album would go to print with those empty spaces. Luckily, my good friend dealt with the hassles of directing the bodies and facial expressions of all the friends and family, I wore my wedding ghillie suit and blended into the surroundings and the day went without a hitch.
The invitations to two weddings were sat around until this weekend when my girlfriend and I finally got to dress up and attend. I wont bore you with the arrangements we needed to make to attend both weddings, but we managed it, though we did spend considerably more time at one than the other, but they were both fabulous. Different, but brilliant in their own ways. This was wedding photography that I could handle. No pressure. I could shoot away without a care in the world. If my camera exploded and my memory card disintegrated, the bride and groom weren’t expecting any photos from me, so there’s nothing to lose. But if I ended up with some half decent photos, then maybe they’d make a nice gift or a good profile photo on Facebook.
It’s not that I don’t like weddings, because I really do. I just don’t think that I’m ready for the responsibility of being paid to take photographs at weddings just yet. I am quite happy just taking my camera along watching the pros and seeing how things progress, who knows… maybe one day. It’s all experience.
Congratulations to Mr & Mrs Follows (pictured) and Mr and Mrs Lovelock. I wish you all the best in your happy new lives and thank you for the opportunity to be a small part of your big day.